Sunday, March 14, 2010

Awake in a Dream

Awake in a Dream

Tori asked me yesterday (Saturday, the 13th) "Mom, is this really happening? It doesn't even feel real."

I knew exactly how she felt…it is like we are awake in a dream. Except I'm really awake because I haven't been able to sleep. Christmas has never, EVER made me this excited.

Last evening we went to a musical theatre about Kung Fu. I have to admit that as we were heading down to the lobby to meet Tingting, our guide, I was wishing we could just stay at the hotel and get our luggage sorted out and prepare for our flight in the morning.

You see, we decided to leave some luggage in Beijing at the Gloria Plaza hotel while we travel to Fuzhou. The reason for this is that the airline we are traveling is very strict about the weight restrictions and there is a large fee for overweight bags. So we left one big suitcase here with 5 changes of clothes, our dirty clothes from so far, gifts for our guide/driver here in Beijing, heavier clothes, etc. When we met with Tingting in the lobby and she told us the price for the show I swallowed a gulp and smiled…it was over $100 Canadian (but that was for all three of us). Then she said we would be taking 2 cabs to the theatre, since we wouldn't all fit in one. I thought that our driver would take us and we would go in the bus that we had been using. Then she said she would only be able to travel with one family and she had a cell phone that she gave to the other family in case the taxis got separated. Then she handed the phone to Roger. I swallowed another gulp. Yikes…we were going to be on our own in CHINA! Tingting spoke to our cab driver and we climbed in. The other cab led the way. And it was when we pulled out onto the street that I realized how much more secure I felt in a bus over a small car! Then we passed the lead taxi…Double Yikes and more gulps being swallowed! About two minutes later they passed us and waved and my heart slowed down a bit. It was about a 15 minute drive to the theatre, but part of the length can be contributed to the fact that a lot of the roads are access roads to the highway and are only one way. When we pulled out of the hotel we went a back route. Then about a minute later we passed in front of the hotel. About 5 minutes later we passed in front of our hotel again. This time traveling in the other direction. It was then that I was glad that our transportation was arranged for us and we didn't have to rent a vehicle and have Roger drive and me navigate. Because I know I would have a hard time navigating with my hands over my eyes!

We arrived at the theatre and Ray commented that for the first time since we arrived in Beijing we no longer looked like the minority (and he and Ainsleigh now looked like the minority). The audience was filled with tourists.

About 30 seconds into the show I completely lost all my regrets about not being at the hotel preparing for the next day. The show was phenomenal! The lights, props and music were amazing and the performers were out of this world. Before the show begin there was an announcement that these were professionals and not to try this at home. Don't worry, I would never attempt those moves. I would probably end up in a full body cast. To say that the show was impressive would be an understatement. As I sat there I thought, "Hmm, and you wanted to stay at the hotel and pack!"

About an hour into the hour and a half show my eyes begin to get very heavy, and I struggled to keep them open. I remember thinking, "Do something exciting to keep me awake!" And then they did and I didn't have any more trouble for the rest of the show. The show was about a boy who was learning Kung Fu and his struggles and how he overcame them to reach full enlightment. (Think about Kung Fu Panda.) Most of the talking was done in English with Chinese translation on a screen over the stage. But sometimes it was reversed (especially the singing – it was in Chinese). I highly recommend the show to anyone coming to Beijing. :D

We got back to the hotel a little after 9 pm. (Again no problem with us being without the guide.) In fact, it was a whole lot faster than our route there. And it only took us a little over 5 minutes. Which my bladder was thankful for!

The taxis charge $2 RMB for 1 kilometer of driving. That is a little less than 30 cents Canadian. So our trip to the theatre was $19 RMB and our trip back was $13 RMB. Pretty inexpensive, I thought. Roger told me later how inexpensive it really was. He gave our driver $100 RMB and the cab driver gave him back over $100 RMB in change…I wondered if Roger had made a mistake. But then he showed me and said he wondered if 2 $50 RMB were stuck together when the driver counted out the change. But when I did the calculations it still didn't add up to the right total. If I remember correctly Roger gave $100 and received back $188.

He wasn't sure of the mistake until after the cab driver had left.

Then later when he took our bags down to the concierge that we are leaving here at the hotel he settled up our bill for the internet usage. The rate I had was $2 RMB per minute to a maximum of $90 RMB per 24 hours. I also could have went with a flat rate of $60 RMB per 24 hours, but I decided to go the other route since I didn't know how long (or short) I would be on the computer. But when I had trouble accessing my blog and then facebook I ended up being on the internet a lot longer than I had expected. Thankfully I can still access my hotmail account and Janice has more than graciously agreed to update my blog for me.

I told Roger that the bill should be $90 RMB (About $15 Can.) The front desk confirmed the amount and Roger gave her $100 RMB. She almost gave him back $20 RMB. Roger said she had two 10's in her hand and was passing them to him and looked down and pulled one back. Roger wondered what was causing this strange behavior of receiving too much money with his change!

The current time as I type this note is 4:18 am, Sunday morning. We're expecting a wake-up at 5 am so we can be ready to check-out and eat breakfast by 6 am, as we leave for the airport at 6:15 am. I'm typing this now so that when we arrive at the hotel in Fuzhou it is all ready to send. I expect that I'll add to the note with details from our in-China flight experience.

But needless to say, once again it looks like I do not need a wake-up call. At the airport in Fredericton it struck me how much Mom resembled Gram Slipp. She told me that she is noticing it more and more herself. She says every time she looks in the mirror she sees more of her mother looking back at her. Well, I guess the apple doesn't fall far from the tree. Here it is, 4 am, and I'm thinking that I'm turning into my mother. Another early morning. I can remember trips where Mom would wake up before everyone else and then go into the bathroom to turn on the light to read. Well, Patti, look in the mirror and who do you see? J

Note: Ray, Ainsleigh, and Fiona Chong are a family from Ontario travelling with us. They are adopting a little Chinese boy, Logan. (Ray and Ainsleigh have Chinese heritage.)

Saturday, March 13, 2010

Fw: Forbidden City Excursion

Forbidden City Excursion

Photos: at the south gate of the Forbidden City
Roger and Tori with a crane in the background. It is an incense burner and the smoke comes out of it's beak.
The 3 of us at the Forbidden City

This morning we enjoyed a nice breakfast at our hotel and then we went to the Forbidden City. We learned a lot of amazing info about the Emporer's life there (24 emporers actually)It was 600 years old! We only lost Roger once. Thankfully, he found our group again.

Then we went to a silk factory and saw how silk is manufactured. Very interesting! I learned some things there.

Tori was happy to come home to the hotel as she was promised a swim in the pool. We were a little disappointed as we had to purchase swim caps...not the most flattering for me, but I told Tori that she should be a swimmer because she looked really good in it!

This evening the Chongs and us went to a local restuarant for supper. We ate for $55 (the 3 of us). Actually it converted to less than $10 Canadian. And we probably had over 1/2 of our food left. Next time Tori and I will share. We ate the meal with chop sticks, too!

In a few minutes we are leaving the hotel to go to a Kung Fu show.

We leave the hotel at 6:30 am tomorrow to go to the airport to head to Fuzhou and Violet!

Friday, March 12, 2010

Patti's March 12 evening post can be accessed by clicking the following link:

Well, we have arrived in Beijing safe and sound. We've been here less than an hour, I've already had a shower and Tori is already fast asleep. We have opted not to go out looking for food tonight. I've been up for 29 hours straight and only had about 2 hours sleep the night before. YIKES! the bed is looking inviting even though it is smaller than our queen size bed at home. (Looks like a twin even though they called it a double.)

Our flights were uneventful. Tori made out fine on the flight from F'ton to Toronto. The gravol may have helped, but it was a smooth ride.

When we landed in Toronto we had time to stop for some breakfast before our next flight left. While we were at Tim Hortons (go figure, huh...) I saw a family and wondered if it might be the other family coming to Beijing with us.

We saw them again in Vancouver and that's where we introduced ourselves to them. We didn't have seats near them on the plane. But we've had lots of time to get to know each other at the Beijing airport.

We went through customs together and then collected our baggage together. And together we searched for missing luggage. Both of us had lost our strollers that we had checked. After about 45 minutes we were able to find them. Then it was out to meet our guide, Tingting. She was beginning to get worried that we had left the airport without her!

Tingting had a shuttle for us to take us to the hotel. It was about an hour's drive. The hotel is beautiful. (But I'm too tired to explore tonight.) Tomorrow we'll meet Tingting in the hotel lobby and do a little sightseeing.

Enjoy your day everyone. I'm going to enjoy my night. Love to all.

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

New News

Well, a lot has happened since my last posting...where to begin?

To start with our travel dates have changed a little. We've decided to fly a day early. So we leave on the 11th. We leave Beijing on Sunday, March 14, and fly to Fujian. We'll be staying at the Lakeside Hotel in Fuzhou. We will be meeting Violet and welcoming her into our family on Monday, March 15. We fly back to Beijing on Saturday, March 2oth. My birthday, March 19th, is basically a free day...so we'll see what we can do for fun to celebrate! I remember the disappointing call we received on December 23rd when we were told that we were skipped over and did not receive a referral. My husband said, "So I guess this means there's no chance that we'll be celebrating either of our birthdays in China." Our coordinator told him that there was still that possibility...Look at us now!

The best news that we've received lately is knowing that our goal for finances for the trip has been reached! Thank You, Father! And thank you to an amazing community that has rallied around us and supported us financially and emotionally! A Chinese Supper was held in January, hosted by our church and Tori's school. Tori did amazingly well with her Read-a-Thon that her school coordinated for her. She read 26 books in the month of January, for a total of4,222 pages. She had over 100 people sponsor her and raised just over $2,000!!! I'm astounded! A fundraiser event was held in February at the local legion. It was an all-day affair - turkey/ham dinner, entertainment in the afternoon, karaoke, and then a dance in the evening. At both of the fundraisers friends had donated items for silent auctions and a cake auction.

So time is flying by as I had hoped it would. We are only 16 days away now. I found advent calendars on the weekend at a Liquidation store. They were only 9 cents each. So I got one for Tori and one for me. (Roger declined - said he had his cell-phone to keep track of the countdown.)

Violet's room had been ready but is empty now. A friend bought laminate flooring for us to lay in her room. It is almost finished and looks fabulous! Tori thought it so nice that she contemplated sleeping on Violet's floor last night. (Her decision might have also had something to do with the fact that I had piled some of Violet's things on Tori's bed.) She slept in her own bed, though. The floor should be finished tonight and then we can start putting the room back in order again.

We received a blessing yesterday from a cousin of mine. She has a new granddaughter and had clothes given to her. But they are still too big for the baby. So she is lending them to us to use for Violet. And they should fit her right away. I love hand-me-downs!

Some other exciting news for us is that I'm typing this on our new netbook. This means that I'll be able to update my blog from China! Yippee!!! I had a hard time deciding if we should purchase one. But then I thought of all the people who want to experience our joy with us and we decided to go for it. Because the last fundraiser helped us reach our goal, and the organizer had told me to use some of the money to buy a laptop, we went the most economical way and bought a netbook. It is so tiny...but perfect for what we need. It is so light it will be great for traveling.

Thanks for sharing in our joy!

Saturday, January 30, 2010

Date for Travel

We got an e-mail from our adoption agency that our travel date is confirmed!

We'll be flying on March 12th to Beijing. Arrive on the 13th.

We leave Beijing on March 14th and fly to Fujian.

We will meet Violet on March 15th.

So I'm hoping time will "fly" until then!

And then I'd like it to stand still for a while.

Sunday, January 24, 2010

Red Thread

There is an ancient Chinese belief which states that when a child is born an invisible red thread connects that child's soul to all those people - present and in the future - who will play a part in that child's life.

Last evening we were overwhelmed by the support of the community in regards to our adoption trip. Our church and school hosted a benefit supper to help with the costs we have coming up.

One thing that stood out to me was the desire from people to be a part of Violet's life. We've had numerous requests to be an "Aunt" to Violet...from people who are not related by blood.

As I looked into the eyes of our family (family by blood and family of the heart) I saw that invisible red thread that tied their hearts to Violet's and I knew that these people would play a special part in her life.

And I must say, that I felt the red thread, too, tugging on my heart last night.

Someday Mom

As a girl I had a common dream, to be a mom someday.

My baby would have eyes of blue and hair the hue of hay.

But now my dreams have been transformed. New visions fill my head.

Now the tresses that I long to stroke are raven black instead.

And in my dreams those eyes are not so big or blue or round.

Now in my dreams they're almond shape and colored cocoa brown.

And in my dream my arms can stretch across enormous seas.

They reach half-way around the world and hold you close to me.

As you grow in your mother's womb, carefully knit together,

Your also growing in my heart, where you will stay forever.

And in my dreams the moment that your mother says good-bye,

I'll be right there to comfort you and hold you as you cry.

Our features may not look alike; we're different as can be.

But still I know the Father has created you for me.

And though I've not yet seen your face, or held your tiny hands,

And though we're half a world apart in very different lands.

I'll be right there to get you just as soon as God allows.

But til he says the time is right I give to you this vow.

I'll pray for your protection every night on bended knee

for God will hold you in his arms, until you're home with me!